Friday, August 5, 2022

On Meekness, Humility and Love

On Meekness, Humility, and Love.

A general write-up on Meekness, Humility & Love. Edited and adapted from All These Things Added by James Allen. This is edited and adapted from All These Things Added by James Allen, published in 1903.

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THE mountain bends not to the fiercest storm, but it shields the fledgling and the lamb, and though all people tread upon it, yet it protects them, and bears them up upon its sturdy bosom. So it is also with the meek among us, who compassionately bend to shield the lowliest creature, and, though they may be despised, lift all others up and lovingly protect them. 

As glorious as the mountain in its silence are the divine man and woman in their silent Meekness; like the mountainous form, their loving embrace is expansive and sublime. Truly their body, like the mountain’s base, is fixed in the valleys and the mists; but the summit of their being is eternally bathed in cloudless glory, and lives with majestic Silence. 

When you have found Meekness, you have found divinity. You have realized the divine consciousness, and know yourself as divine. You also know all others as divine — though they know it not themselves, being asleep and dreaming. Meekness is a divine quality, and as such is all-powerful. The meek person overcomes by not resisting, and by allowing themselves to be defeated, they attain the Supreme Conquest. 

If you conquer another by force, you are strong. If you conquer yourself by Meekness you are mighty. When you conquer another by force, you will likewise be conquered. When you conquer yourself by Meekness, you will never be overthrown, for the human being cannot overcome the divine. 

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The meek individual is triumphant in defeat. Socrates lives the more by being put to death. In the crucified Jesus, the risen Christ is revealed. That which is real cannot be destroyed — but only that which is unreal. When you find within yourself that which is real, which is constant, abiding, changeless, and eternal, you enter into that Reality, and become meek. All the powers of darkness will come against you, but they will do you no hurt, and will, at last, depart from you. 

The meek man and woman are found in times of trial. When other people fall, they stand. Their patience is not destroyed by the foolish passions of others, and when attacks are made against them, they do not "strive nor cry" — for they know the utter powerlessness of all evil, having overcome it in themselves, and thus live in the changeless strength and power of divine Good. 

Meekness is one aspect of the operation of that changeless Love which is at the Heart of all things and is, therefore, an imperishable quality. Those who live in meekness are without fear, knowing the Highest, and having the lowest under their feet. 

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The meek person shines in darkness and flourishes in obscurity. Meekness does not boast, advertise itself, nor thrive on popularity. It is practiced and is sometimes seen or not seen — being a spiritual quality it is perceived only by the eye of the spirit. 

Those who are not spiritually awakened see it not, nor do they love it, being enamored of (and blinded by) worldly shows and appearances. Nor does history take note of the meek individual. History’s glory is that of strife and self-aggrandizement; the glory of the meek is peace and gentleness. History chronicles the earthly, not the heavenly acts. Yet though the meek live in obscurity, they cannot be hidden (how can light be hidden?). They continue to shine after they have withdrawn themselves from the world, and are worshipped by the world which knew them not. 

That the meek among us should be neglected, abused, or misunderstood is reckoned by them as of no account, and therefore not to be considered, much less resisted. They know that all such weapons are the flimsiest and most ineffectual of shadows. To those, therefore, who give them evil, they give good. They resist none, and thereby conquer all. 

If you imagine that you can be injured by others, and seek to justify and defend yourself against them, you do not understand Meekness and do not comprehend the essence and meaning of life. 

If you harbor such thoughts as "they abused me, they beat me, they defeated me, they robbed me,” your hatred will never cease . . . for hatred ceases not by hatred at any time. Hatred ceases by love. 

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You say that your neighbor has been spreading lies about you? Well, what of that? Can a falsity hurt you? That which is false is false, and there is an end to it. It is without life, and without power to hurt any but those who seek to hurt by it. It is nothing to you that your neighbor should speak falsely about you, but it will mean much if you should attack them in return and try to justify yourself — for, by so doing, you give life and vitality to your neighbor’s lies, and are thus injured and distressed. 

Take all anger and evil out of your own heart, then you will see the folly of resisting it in another. Are you being trodden upon? You are trodden upon already if you think like that. The injury that you see as coming from another comes only from yourself. The wrong thought, word, or act of another has no power to hurt you unless you galvanize it into life by your passionate resistance, and so receive it into yourself. 

If any person slanders you, that is their concern, not yours. Your concern is with your own soul, not with your neighbor’s. Though all the world may misjudge you, it is no business of yours; but that you should possess your soul in Kindness and Love: that is all your business. 

There shall be no end to strife until we stop justifying ourselves. Those who would like to put an end to the wars, let them cease to defend any party — let them cease to defend themselves. Not by strife can peace come, but by ceasing from strife. 

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The glory of Cæsar resided in the resistance of his enemies. They resist and fall. But give to Cæsar that which Cæsar demands, and Cæsar’s glory and power are gone. Thus, by submission do the meek conquer the strong — for it is not that outward show of submission which is slavery, it is that inward and spiritual submission which is freedom

Claiming no rights, the meek individual is not troubled with self-defense and self-justification. They live in love and therefore come under the immediate and vital protection of the Great Love which is the Eternal Law of the universe. The meek neither claim nor seek their own; thus do all things come to them, and all the universe shields and protects them. 

If you are saying to yourself, "I have tried Meekness, and it failed," then you have not tried Meekness. It cannot be tried as an experiment. It is only arrived at by unreserved self-sacrifice. Meekness does not consist merely of non-resistance in action. It consists pre-eminently in non-resistance in your thoughts, in ceasing to hold or to have any selfish, condemnatory, or retaliatory thoughts. The meek man and woman, cannot "take offense" or have their "feelings hurt," for they are living above hatred, folly, and vanity. Meekness can never fail. 

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If you are striving for a greater spiritual life, a more blessed life, strive after Meekness. Increase your patience and forbearance day by day; bid your tongue cease all harsh words; withdraw your mind from selfish arguments, and refuse to brood upon those who have wronged you. By living this way, you will carefully tend and cultivate the pure and delicate flower of Meekness in your heart, until at last, its divine sweetness and purity and beautiful perfection shall be revealed to you, and you will become gentle, joyful, and strong. 

Fret not that you are surrounded by irritable and selfish people, but rather rejoice that you are so wise as to have your own imperfections revealed to you and that you are awake to the struggle for self-mastery and the attainment of perfection. The more there is harshness and selfishness around you, the greater is the need for your Meekness and love. 

If others seek to wrong you, all the more is it needed that you should cease all wrong and live in love. If others preach Meekness, humility, and love, and do not practice these, trouble not, nor be annoyed — but in the silence of your own heart, and in your contact with them, practice these things, and they shall preach themselves. And even though you made no declaration, nor stood before a gathered audience, you shall teach the whole world. 

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As you grow in meekness, you will learn the deepest secrets of the universe. Nothing is hidden from those who overcome themselves. Into the cause of causes you shall penetrate, and lifting, one after another, every veil of illusion, will reach at last the inmost Heart of Being. By becoming one with Life (and seeing into causes, and knowing realities), you will no longer be anxious about yourself, others, and the world, but shall see that all things are engines of the Great Law. Canopied with gentleness, you shall bless where others curse; love where others hate; forgive where others condemn; yield where others strive; give up where others grasp; lose where others gain — and in their strength, they shall be weak; but in weakness, you shall be strong, and mightily prevail. 

A Brahmin Guide for Living a Noble Life

 

A Brahmin Guide for Living a Noble Life. Adapted from The Economy of Human Life, translated from an ancient Brahmin manuscript by Robert Dodsley, published in 1839.

COMMUNE

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Commune with yourself and consider for what reason you were made. Contemplate your powers, your wants, and your connections — so that you shall discover the duties of life and be directed in all your ways. 


Proceed not to speak or to act before you have weighed your words and examined the tendency of every step you will take. By doing so, disgrace shall fly far from you, and in your house, shame shall be a stranger; repentance shall not visit you, nor sorrow dwells upon your cheek. 


The thoughtless person speaks at random. They are entangled in the foolishness of their own words. They are like the person who runs in haste and leaps over a fence, only to fall into a pit on the other side, which they did not see — for they plunge suddenly into any action, not having considered the consequences. Hearken therefore unto the voice of Consideration. Her words are the words of wisdom, and her paths shall lead you to truth and safety. 


MODESTY



The first step toward being wise is to know that you are ignorant. And if you would not be thought foolish in the judgment of others, cast off the folly of being wise in your own self-admiration. As a plain garment best adorns a beautiful body, so is good behavior the greatest ornament of wisdom. 

The speech of a modest man and woman gives luster to truth, and the prudence of their words absolves any error. They rely not simply on their own wisdom, but weigh the counsel of a friend, and receive the benefits. 


On the other hand, consider the vain individual, and observe the arrogance. They are rude to their subordinates; they despise the judgment of others; they rely solely on their own opinions and are confounded when things go wrong. 


APPLICATION

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Since the days of the past are gone forever, and those that are to come may not come to you, it is important to take advantage of the present time, without regretting the loss of that which is in the past or depending too much on that which is to come. This moment in time is yours; the next is in the womb of the future, and you know not what it may bring forth. 


Whatever you resolve to do, do it quickly. Defer not till the evening what the morning may accomplish. Idleness is the parent of want and pain, but the labor of virtue brings forth pleasure. The hand of diligence defeats wants. Prosperity and success are the attendants of the industrious. 


Have you ever asked yourself how is it that someone has acquired wealth; has risen to power; has clothed themselves with honor, is praised by many, and is sought after for their counsel? They are the person who rises up early and lies down late; who exercises their mind with contemplation and their body with action and preserves the health of both. 


The lazy person is a burden to themselves. Their hours hang heavy upon their head. They loiter about and know not what they should do. Their thoughts are confused. They long for knowledge but have no application. Their days pass away like the shadow of a cloud, and they leave behind them no mark for remembrance. 

 

EMULATION. 


If your soul yearns for honor (if your ear seeks the voice of praise), raise yourself from the earth which you were made, and exalt your aim to something that is praiseworthy. The oak that now spreads its branches towards the heavens, was once but an acorn in the bowels of the earth. 


Endeavor to be first in your calling, whatever it may be. Neither let anyone go before you in doing good. However, do not envy the merits of another person, but improve your own talents. Do not weaken competitors by dishonest or unworthy methods. Strive to raise yourself above them only by excelling them — thus your contest for superiority will be crowned with honor, if not with success. 


By virtuous emulation, your spirit is exalted within you. You rise like the palm tree in spite of oppression. And as an eagle in the firmament of heaven, you soar aloft and fix your eyes upon the glories of the sun. The examples of eminent men and women are in your visions at night — and your delight is to follow them all day long. 


Form your great designs now, and rejoice in their execution. And your name will go forth to the ends of the world. 

 

PRUDENCE


As you work, remember to hear the words of Prudence; give heed unto her counsel, and store them in your heart. Her maxims are universal, and all the virtues lean upon her. She is the guide and mistress of human life. 


Put a bridle on your tongue. Set a guard before your lips, otherwise, the words of your own mouth will destroy your peace. Whosoever speaks of another person’s failings with pleasure, shall hear of their own with the bitterness of heart. 


Too much speaking is always followed by repentance, but in silence there is safety. A talkative person is a nuisance to society. Our ears are sick of their babbling; the torrent of their words overwhelms conversation. 


Boast not of yourself, for it shall bring contempt upon you; neither deride another, for it is dangerous. A bitter jest is the poison of friendship. And the person that cannot restrain their tongue, shall have trouble. 


Furnish yourself with the proper accommodations belonging to your circumstances. But do not spend to the limit of what you can afford. Let, also, not your recreations be expensive, otherwise, the pain of purchasing them may exceed the pleasure you have in their enjoyment. 

Neither let prosperity put out the eyes of caution, nor abundance cut off the hands of frugality. The person that indulges too much in the luxuries of life, shall live to lament the want of its necessities. 


From the experience of others, learn wisdom. And from their failings, correct your own faults. When you have proved to yourself that someone is honest, lock them up in your heart as a treasure: regard them as a jewel of inestimable price. 


Use not today what tomorrow may want. Neither leaves that to hazard which foresight may provide for, or care prevent. However, expect not even from prudence infallible success — for the day knows not what the night may bring forth. 


Remember that the fool is not always unfortunate, nor the wise person always successful — yet never had a fool a thorough and lasting enjoyment, and never are the wise wholly unhappy. 

 

FORTITUDE

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PERILS and misfortunes (and want, and pain, and injury) are more or less the certain lots of every person that comes into the world. It is necessary, therefore, to fortify early your mind with courage and patience. As the camel bears labor and heat (and hunger and thirst), through deserts of sand and faints not; so your fortitude shall sustain you through all perils. 


Women and men of noble spirit possess greatness of soul that is not to be cast down. They are like a rock on the seashore. They stand firm, and the dashing of the waves does not disturb them. They raise their head like a tower on a hill and the arrows of Fortune drop at their feet. In a moment of danger, the courage of their heart sustains them; and the steadiness of their mind bears them out. 

 

HOPE AND FEAR

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THE promises of hope are sweeter than roses in the bud, while threats of fear are a terror to the heart. Nevertheless, let not hope allure, nor fear deters you from doing what is right; thus, you will be prepared to meet all events with an equal mind. 


In all your undertakings let a reasonable assurance animate your endeavors. If you despair of success, you will not succeed. Terrify not your soul with vain fears — neither let your heart sink within you from the phantoms of imagination. From fear proceeds, misfortune but the one who hopes helps themselves. As the ostrich when pursued hides its head, but forgets its body; so the fears of a coward expose them to danger. 


If you believe a thing impossible, your despondency will make it so. But if you persevere, you will overcome all difficulties. In all your desires let reason go along with you and fix not your hopes beyond the bounds of probability. Success will thus attend your undertakings, and your heart will not be vexed with disappointments. 

 

CONTENTMENT

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Do not forget that your station on earth is appointed by the wisdom of the Eternal — who knoweth thy heart, who seeth the vanity of all thy wishes, and who often, in mercy, denies thy requests. 


Yet for all reasonable desires, for all honest endeavors, Divine benevolence has established (in the nature of things) a probability of success. The uneasiness you feel, the misfortunes you complain about identify the root from where they spring — that includes your own folly, your own pride, and your own ill-tempered actions. 


Grumble not therefore at the whims of God, but correct your own heart: neither say to yourself, "If I had wealth, or power, or leisure, I should be happy" — for they all bring with them their own peculiar problems and inconveniences. Envy not the appearance of happiness in any person, for you do not know their secret griefs. 


To be satisfied with a little is the greatest wisdom. The person who increases their riches increases their cares: but a contented mind is a hidden treasure, and trouble finds it not. 

However, if you do not allow the allurements of fortune to rob you of justice, temperance, charity, or modesty, your riches themselves shall not make you unhappy or less noble. 


Virtue is the race which God has set you to run, and happiness the goal, which none can arrive at till they have finished their course, and received their crown in the mansions of eternity. 


RICH AND POOR

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The person to whom God has given riches, and blessed them a mind to employ their wealth alright, is uniquely favored, and highly distinguished. They own their wealth with pleasure because it affords them the means to do good. They seek out objects of compassion; they inquire into their wants; they relieve with judgment, and without ostentation. 


They assist and reward merit. They encourage ingenuity and liberally promote every useful design. They carry on great works; thus, their country is enriched, and the laborer is employed. They also consider the link between their belongings and the laborers who produced them and defraud them not. 


The benevolence of their mind is not checked by their fortune. They rejoice therefore in abundance and their joy is well-earned.